Is my hubby the only one who can't stand it when I have a life that doen't include him?

Is he getting to go relax and have fun? I would tell him go have a night off and enjoy yourself. Sounds like he's just overwhelmed and releasing some pent up frustration on you. He just needs some fun adult time also and probably was jealous and resentful you went to have fun. And kudos he gives them baths after work!!! Ugh! Mine doesn't do that even!..be grateful! And yes you deserve time to enjoy yourself as well as him. Just try to make it 50/50 fun time. I would encourage him to take a break.